5 months ago he came into this world, our little baby boy. "BEAR"
It has taken me awhile to write something about him, not because I
couldn't muster the words, but to be honest, just to much to say, too many
emotions.
First I will answer the name Question. Everyone who hears his
name, kinda gives us a slight "what" grin, then smiles and
comments with "that's a unique", "awesome", "cool" name.
We are both connected to the name and have been subconsciously all
of our lives. Deanna's spirit animal is a Bear and the first tattoo I got
at 18 was a grizzly bear face, that was a representation at the time of my mother and her many positive traits that resemble the bear....... Many who know me, know what an insane Chicago Bears fan I am, and yes it is cool that it overlaps,
however not the reasoning for the name....
Regardless it fits him perfectly.....
He is a Bear, he is our Little Bear.
Sure we will add a few more adjectives before his name in the years
to come that will be equally fitting...
We love his name and will ensure he grows into it!
------------ When BEAR was born I sent out this email / text.
"Deanna and I are proud to announce that at 11:20pm, May 31st, Day 1 of training camp as begun for Bear Allan Fequet. He has been drafted by DaBears as their Middle Linebacker. At 7lbs8oz he will need to ensure he gains the appropriate amount of weight and form over the next 21 years to ensure his spot on the roster. With that said, we along his brother and sisters, family and friends will be there to support him during these important years."..
Now at 5 months and 20 pounds, he is in the 95 percentile on all levels and on track with his weight and height. We are starting slow with his push ups, however he loves butt raises and leg extensions, and he is making progress each day, slower than I would have hoped but I know my expectations were / are high.....
Now on the food and rest side of his program, he is mirroring my routine already. He eats every three hours and goes to bed at 7:30pm and wakes up at 4:30am... PERFECT...
Not sure Deanna would agree, because I forgot to mention the two random feedings during the night.
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Having the great pleasure to have another child, especially with Deanna is a true blessing. She has proven to be a great step mother, so I knew she would be amazing Mom, however it's truly overwhelming seeing first hand, her bond with Bear.
The way they look at each other brings a tear to my eye, the way he melts into her neck and snuggles for dear life, the way his breathing slows down when she holds him and his heart beat races when he sees her, knowing his Mom is back into view. She has created this calm, safe and secure environment around him that allows him to exuded happiness and overall contentedness, this is showcased each time he Smiles. ..................
I wrote a quote in my original blog years ago...
"Smile before someone else does; Only competition you should always try to win'.
He certainly is winning this competition early in life.
------------ When BEAR was born I sent out this email / text.
"Deanna and I are proud to announce that at 11:20pm, May 31st, Day 1 of training camp as begun for Bear Allan Fequet. He has been drafted by DaBears as their Middle Linebacker. At 7lbs8oz he will need to ensure he gains the appropriate amount of weight and form over the next 21 years to ensure his spot on the roster. With that said, we along his brother and sisters, family and friends will be there to support him during these important years."..
Now at 5 months and 20 pounds, he is in the 95 percentile on all levels and on track with his weight and height. We are starting slow with his push ups, however he loves butt raises and leg extensions, and he is making progress each day, slower than I would have hoped but I know my expectations were / are high.....
Now on the food and rest side of his program, he is mirroring my routine already. He eats every three hours and goes to bed at 7:30pm and wakes up at 4:30am... PERFECT...
Not sure Deanna would agree, because I forgot to mention the two random feedings during the night.
----------------
Having the great pleasure to have another child, especially with Deanna is a true blessing. She has proven to be a great step mother, so I knew she would be amazing Mom, however it's truly overwhelming seeing first hand, her bond with Bear.
The way they look at each other brings a tear to my eye, the way he melts into her neck and snuggles for dear life, the way his breathing slows down when she holds him and his heart beat races when he sees her, knowing his Mom is back into view. She has created this calm, safe and secure environment around him that allows him to exuded happiness and overall contentedness, this is showcased each time he Smiles. ..................
I wrote a quote in my original blog years ago...
"Smile before someone else does; Only competition you should always try to win'.
He certainly is winning this competition early in life.
Their are one or two qualities of mine, I hope he develops that will
potentially help him along the path of life.
But if he doesn't, and he is 100%
like his Mom, he will be the luckiest boy ever!
Deanna and I have made the committed to love, care for and support him throughout his
life and will be there for him at all cost, but without knowing it, yet, he is
the one that is supporting us and making us better.
Bear is young and we don't yet know what he will bring to this world
to make it a better place, yet we can see already the charm that pours from him
and the halo that hovers above him so bright.
One look into his eyes and you
have no doubt that the creator exist and an higher power is looking out for
us.
We Love You Bear!
