Monday, September 16, 2024

 

Key Lessons I've Learned on My Journey

Over the years, life has presented me with a series of experiences that have shaped who I am today. Through triumphs and challenges alike, I've gathered insights that I believe could resonate with others on their own paths. I'd like to share these key lessons in the hope that they might offer guidance or inspiration.

Align with People Who Share Your Values and Vision

The company you keep profoundly influences your journey. Surround yourself with individuals who not only share your core values but also resonate with your vision for the future. These are the people who will support your dreams, challenge your ideas constructively, and celebrate your successes genuinely. When values and visions align, collaboration becomes seamless, and collective progress thrives.

Trust Your Intuition

If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Your intuition is a powerful compass that often senses underlying truths before your rational mind catches up. Trusting your gut can steer you away from negative situations and guide you toward choices that align with your authentic self. Listen to that inner voice, it's there to protect and guide you.

Live Through Your Subconscious Mind

Our subconscious mind holds the keys to our deepest desires, fears, and motivations. By tapping into it, we can gain profound insights into our behaviors and decision-making processes. Practices like meditation, mindfulness, or journaling can help you connect with your subconscious, allowing you to live more authentically and intentionally.

Prioritize Your Health

Your health is your most valuable asset. If anyone or anything tries to diminish its importance or convince you otherwise, it's crucial to remove that influence from your life, surgically if necessary. Prioritize your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Surround yourself with those who support your health journey and understand its significance in achieving your goals.

Embrace the Present Moment

No matter how brilliant you are or think you are, you cannot predict the future or live in it before it arrives. Similarly, dwelling on the past is a waste of the precious time you have now. Focus on the present, it's the only moment where life truly unfolds. By trusting your vision and living according to your values today, you pave the way to achieving everything you desire.

Cherish Those Who Are Truly There for You

Take a moment to recognize who stands by you:

  • Who is there when you end your day and when you begin anew?
  • Who remembers your birthday without a social media reminder?
  • Who senses distress in your voice and reaches out immediately?
  • Who supports you even when you aren't aware you need it?

These individuals are invaluable. Focus on them with pure kindness and proactive love. Nurture these relationships, they are your true support system.

Seek to Understand Before Accepting Advice

When someone offers valuable business advice, don't just accept it blindly—or worse, dismiss it without consideration. Pause and ask questions:

  • What experiences shaped this advice?
  • What were the circumstances and outcomes?
  • How does it relate to your current situation?

By digging deeper, you not only gain a better understanding but also learn how to apply the insights effectively. Trust that experienced individuals know what they're talking about. In essence, ask to "see the scars," learn how they got them, and, if possible, connect with others involved in their journey. This comprehensive approach enriches your learning process.

Find Your Community and Give Back

Especially if you've faced struggles and emerged with valuable lessons, it's both a moral and universal responsibility to share your insights. Engage with your community, mentor the youth, and contribute positively to others' journeys. Giving back not only enriches others' lives but also adds profound meaning to your own.

Learn from True Experts

Time is precious. Don't spend it attending conferences featuring the same speakers who claim expertise on varying topics without substantial experience. Instead, seek out genuine subject matter experts, those with proven track records and real-world experience. Learning from such individuals provides you with practical knowledge and insights that can significantly impact your personal and professional growth.


Life is an ongoing learning process. By aligning yourself with the right people, trusting your intuition, living in the present, cherishing meaningful relationships, thoughtfully considering advice, giving back to your community, and learning from true experts, you set the stage for a fulfilling and successful journey. Remember, the most significant aspects of life are those present in your world today. Trust your vision, uphold your values, create and then listen to your voice and you're well on your way to achieving everything you aspire to.

Thank you for being part of my journey, and I hope these lessons resonate with you on yours.

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As an Indigenous man deeply aware of my culture and identity, I walk with a profound awareness of who I am, both in mind and body. I today, live in a way that honors the wisdom passed down from my parents and community, embracing the strength that comes from a deep connection to the land, my family, and my spirit. My body is not just a vessel but a sacred entity, and through it, I channel the resilience and teachings that have been ingrained in my DNA.

Guided by the 4V model (Vision, Values, Volition, and Voice) I move through life with purpose. My vision is shaped by the dreams of my family and the future generations who look to me for guidance. My values are the foundation upon which I stand, drawn from the traditions, principles, and community that have nurtured my growth. Through my volition, I actively choose the path of growth and transformation, understanding that my journey is not just about me but about the collective well-being of all Indigenous peoples. And my voice? It carries the stories, the strength, and the spirit of my family, speaking truth to the power that lies within.

I live through my subconscious, deeply attuned to the flow of life and the signals my body and spirit send. My connection to who I am and what I need allows me to grow and evolve while staying rooted in the teachings that keep me grounded. Every step I take is deliberate, as I strive to create a future where I can flourish while also uplifting my family and community.

This journey is not just about personal growth, it’s about the collective journey of all Indigenous peoples rising with determination, strength, and purpose.